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Who’s the boss?

I’m trying to get out of debt, but it seems like something unexpected always happens to knock me back down. I’m single, make $45,000 a year, and I have $12,000 in debt, in addition to a mortgage payment of $1,124 a month. I’ve been trying to live on a budget, but I still don’t know where all the money goes.

Dear Dave,

I'm trying to get out of debt, but it seems like something unexpected always happens to knock me back down. I'm single, make $45,000 a year, and I have $12,000 in debt, in addition to a mortgage payment of $1,124 a month. I've been trying to live on a budget, but I still don't know where all the money goes.

Anonymous

Dear Anonymous,

For starters, your house payment is kind of heavy. I always recommend that your monthly mortgage payment be no more than 25 percent of your take-home pay. Still, the biggest thing is that you've got to get control of your money instead of letting it control you.

I want you to sit down every month, before the next month begins, and write it all down on paper, on purpose. Give every single dollar a name, and tell your money what to do. Once you've done this, the idea of "trying to live on a budget" stops being some vague idea floating around out there and becomes a real game plan for your money!

-Dave

Dave Ramsey is America's trusted voice on money and business. He has authored five New York Times best-selling books: Financial Peace, More Than Enough, The Total Money Makeover, EntreLeadership and Smart Money Smart Kids. The Dave Ramsey Show is heard by more than 6 million listeners each week on more than 500 radio stations. Follow Dave on Twitter at @DaveRamsey and on the web at daveramsey.com.